Turning the Other Cheek, the Cloak and the Mile
“Turning the other cheek” belongs to the Sermon on the Mount, where Christ takes up the ancient law to bring it to its fulfilment. By this word he calls to renounce personal vengeance and to overcome evil with good.
Eye for eye
The word starts from the ancient law, which Christ quotes before carrying it further: “You have heard that it was said: Eye for eye, tooth for tooth. But I say to you not to resist the wicked. On the contrary, if someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn the other to him as well.” Matthew 5:38-39 The original rule came from Moses: “eye for eye, tooth for tooth.” Exodus 21:24 It is usually heard as a harsh law, hungry for reprisal. It was a measure of restraint: in a world where men killed for an offence, it forbade the penalty to exceed the wrong, an eye for an eye and no more. The law of retaliation curbed vengeance by making it proportionate. Where the law limited the riposte, Christ asks that it be given up.
The right cheek
The detail of the right cheek makes the sense precise. When two men face each other, a slap of the right hand, given with the open palm, lands on the other’s left cheek; to reach his right cheek, one must strike him with the back of the hand. That backhanded blow was the gesture of contempt, the hand a master raised against a servant: an insult, more than a blow to wound. The word therefore aims at the affront and the humiliation, where the injury touches honour more than the body.
To turn the other cheek is to offer the left: to give oneself to a second blow instead of returning the first. The disciple shows himself ready to bear the affront once more rather than send it back. There lies the point: not to enter the spiral of offence. The one who returns the insult he received revives the quarrel and lets himself be led by the one who struck him; the one who turns the other cheek breaks that chain and stays free, master of his response instead of obeying his aggressor.
The sense of the word
This word reaches the heart first. It asks the disciple to renounce avenging himself, to accept suffering a wrong rather than returning it, not to take justice into his own hands. It does not for all that abolish justice: authority keeps the duty to punish crime and to protect the innocent, and no one is bound to hand a weak man over to the blows of a violent one in the name of gentleness. Turning the other cheek concerns the way one answers an offence received in one’s own person, not the abandonment of those one has the charge to defend. This limit has its ground in Paul: public order belongs to another hand than the offended disciple’s, that of the authority of which it is said: “it is not for nothing that it bears the sword. For it is in the service of God to do justice and punish the one who does evil.” Romans 13:4 To renounce avenging oneself does not abolish the justice that protects the innocent.
The example of Christ
Christ himself shows how to understand it. At his trial, when a guard strikes him on the face, he neither keeps silent nor turns the other cheek to the letter, but answers with dignity: “If I have spoken wrongly, show what was wrong; but if I have spoken rightly, why do you strike me?” John 18:23 He does not return the blow, and he exposes the injustice instead of avenging it: his question places the guard before his act and forces him to justify it, which he cannot. Brought into full light, the violence loses all appearance of right. Scripture will say of him that, insulted, he did not return the insult: “when he suffered, he did not threaten, but entrusted himself to the one who judges justly.” 1 Peter 2:23
Leaving vengeance to God
To renounce avenging oneself does not give the wrong over to oblivion: the disciple hands it to God, the only judge just enough to set it right. “Do not take revenge yourselves, beloved, but leave room for the wrath of God, for it is written: Vengeance is mine, I will repay each one, says the Lord.” Romans 12:19 The disciple does not resign himself to evil, he fights it with the opposite weapons: “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” Romans 12:21 Good set against evil breaks the chain that vengeance would keep going.
The Cloak and the Mile
The same word extends at once to goods. “To the one who wants to take you to court to take your tunic, leave your cloak as well.” Matthew 5:40 The tunic is the undergarment; the cloak, the large outer piece, more valuable, which the Law protected. To the gift of the cloak and the second mile, Christ at once adds generosity toward the one who asks: “Give to the one who asks you; do not turn your back on the one who wants to borrow from you.” Matthew 5:42 The disciple does not merely refrain from returning evil; he opens his hand. “If you take your neighbour’s cloak in pledge, you are to return it to him before sunset, for it is his only covering.” Exodus 22:25-26
The word then passes to compulsion. “If someone forces you to go one kilometre, go two with him.” Matthew 5:41 The Greek verb used here, angareuō (ἀγγαρεύω), denotes the requisition of the occupier: a Roman soldier could compel an inhabitant to carry his load over a fixed distance, one mile (about 1.5 km). This verb reappears at the Passion, for Simon of Cyrene. “On the way out, they came upon a man of Cyrene named Simon, and they forced him to carry the cross of Jesus.” Matthew 27:32
These commandments ask for a gratuitous kindness toward the one who has wronged us. Received where retaliation was expected, this goodness can touch the heart of the offender, lead him to question himself, let him glimpse God, who is its source, and opens a door to conversion. “If your enemy is hungry, give him food; if he is thirsty, give him drink: in doing so you heap coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you.” Proverbs 25:21-22 The coals heaped on his head are not a disguised revenge: they figure the burning of remorse that unmerited kindness kindles in the offender.
To be children of the Father
The end of these words is likeness to God. A few lines further on, Christ widens the commandment as far as the enemy: “love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat and persecute you.” Matthew 5:44 And he gives the reason: to act thus makes one like the Father, whose goodness does not depend on merit. “Thus you will be sons of your Father who is in the heavens, for he makes his sun rise on the wicked and the good.” Matthew 5:45 The one who does not return evil imitates God’s patience toward sinners, and draws near to the measure he sets them: “be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect.” Matthew 5:48